In the tranquil, leafy surroundings of Parkwood Retirement Village in Waikanae, two extraordinary women shared a moment that was both deeply personal and joyfully public. Joan and Elaine, best friends for decades, agreed to celebrate their unique bond in a way that reflects their vibrant personalities and zest for life: a Wildstyler photography photoshoot.
Joan, who has been blind for several years, and Elaine, with her unquenchable love for colour, couldn’t be more different in some ways, yet they complement each other perfectly. The photoshoot—a way to embrace their individuality while also showcasing the deep connection they share.
The flower crowns they wore told their stories without words. Joan’s crown was a Wildstyler sensory masterpiece, filled with highly scented blooms of sweet pea, thyme and lavender, that allowed her to experience the beauty in her own way.
Elaine, on the other hand, reveled in the visual feast atop her head. Her crown was a riot of colour—bright pinks, purples, and oranges that mirrored her exuberant spirit. As someone who has always adored vibrant hues, she felt that her crown was the perfect expression of her personality.
The setting for their photoshoot was the lush gardens of Parkwood Retirement Village, a place both women have called home for years. The greenery, punctuated with bursts of seasonal flowers, provided the perfect backdrop. As the camera clicked, the two friends laughed, shared stories, and, at times, simply sat in comfortable silence, enjoying the peaceful surroundings and each other's company.
But beyond the flower crowns and the picturesque setting, there was something else that set Joan and Elaine apart—the “Do Not Resuscitate” wristbands they both wore. For these two, the wristbands aren’t about defiance or giving up; they are a testament to their shared philosophy of living life on their own terms. Joan and Elaine have always been unapologetically themselves, and the wristbands are just one more way they choose to embrace life—and, eventually, death—without fear.
The photoshoot was more than just a series of pictures; it was a celebration of friendship, life, and the freedom to be true to oneself. For Joan and Elaine, this day will be another cherished memory in a long line of adventures they’ve shared. And for those who see the photos, it will be a reminder that age is no barrier to living with joy, courage, and a little bit of wild style.